Is Your Heart Blocked?
- Tiffany
- Feb 2, 2019
- 5 min read
Updated: Feb 3
14 out of 15 people have a wall around their heart. This may sound strange, but the reality is that most people experience some sort of emotional trauma throughout their lives and in effort to protect themselves they subconsciously put up an energetic wall around their heart. They subconsciously believe this wall will serve as a buffer between themselves and whoever/whatever causes them pain.
However this is an illusion. One that was built off false conditioning and boundaries that were created from the limited mind, not the "knowing" of the heart.
The truth is that we are all connected and there is no separation that is needed from others. Yes, there are healthy boundaries that must be had as a way of honoring oneself, but the problem is that most people will try to create these boundaries from a limited mind on what they think will keep them safe rather than what will actually lead to a healthy life of love & support.
Part of what happens through these limiting beliefs is creating more separation rather than actually healing. It is a "shutting down" of sorts. Subconsciously an emotional wall is built around the heart of all the memories and emotions of why one believes it's not safe to open back up or connect.
However it's through healing this wall that people can hear their divine heart "knowing" again. This know is what helps them live a healthy life full of connection & love.
How the Heart Wall Builds
Can you remember a painful situation that left you with grief or sadness? Or maybe a time that you felt deeply betrayed, rejected or abandoned?
You've learned the Top 5 Ways Emotions Get Stuck and similar to this, emotions can also become stuck when you are in deep shock and unable to process what you are feeling. When the pain is too deep and you go into survival mode, you can subconsciously store these emotions and create a barrier around your heart. This barrier between you and the world is made up of the exact emotions that got stuck and it’s called a Heart Wall.
When you experience painful emotions like these, it's easy to want to protect yourself from similar future experiences by putting up a wall. And for a brief time this wall DOES seem like it helping because sometimes it is the very disconnection from others that gives the illusion of healing. There can also be a subconscious desire to hold onto the emotion because whenever it feels triggered in your system, you think this is alerting you not to get close to others.
However as you have learned, life has a way of showing you your pain and limiting beliefs to help you heal and bring you back into wholeness. Many times when your past pain is triggered, it's to help bring your awareness to an wound that is not serving you to hold onto.
The truth is that a healthy and unblocked heart can hear the TRUTH. It knows what situations are healthy for you and it knows what situations to say no to. You do not need a wall to keep yourself self and a wall will can actually create the opposite when not seen for what it is, another place needing your attention and healing.
The obstacle that many don't realize is that these Heart Walls don't disappear on their own. Even after you've grown and gained awareness of your past traumas and why you feel the way you do, this doesn't always help you heal your emotions so your Heart Wall can remain intact years after you thought you worked through it. This is why it is important to be aware of your emotions and some of the clue that can tell you whether your heart wall may still exist.
Effects of a Heart Wall
When your Heart Wall goes unhealed it will actually begin to have a negative impact and block you from what your heart truly desires in life.
In essence, your heart is blocked.
Similar to the way you outgrow anything in life, your block is meant to be outgrown too. When you first learn to bike, you have training wheels. These wheels help you establish your balance and speed, all the while learning to steer with clear direction.
However, there comes a time when the very training wheels that helped you get your bearings become the very obstacle that holds you back from growing and reaching greater goals.
In this same way, your Heart Wall taught you how to cope by being a constant reminder of what you wanted to avoid in effort to prevent more pain. However, when left unhealed it will continue to not only be the buffer between you and the painful experiences, but also between you and the good experiences. Every experience in life will be met through the barrier of all of your Heart Wall stuck emotions (grief, fear, depression, anxiety, longing, unworthiness, frustration etc).
Can you imagine what this does to your personal relationships? Whenever you send out love or try to connect with another, the connection is not pure because there is a part of you being held back from complete connection.
Think of a time in your life where you were in a good situation and knew that you should be feeling loved or safe, but you just couldn't open up and trust? Or maybe there was a time you felt lonely and disconnected from others, but you just didn't know how to reach out and feel a sense of belonging.
There are countless situations where people feel disconnected or unable to open up and these are usually all indicators of having a Heart Wall. When you have outgrown your past, you feel this way because you are being guided to see that the next step is a clear heart so you can open up to love again.
The problem is that it is incredibly difficult to have flourishing relationships when you are feeling everything through the negative emotions guarding your heart.
Even worse, when you are meant to outgrow your Heart Wall you begin to see all the ways you are attracting the very experiences that match the stuck emotions around your heart. This happens simply because the universe is showing you what you are still holding onto. In order to help you change this and lead you back to you, you became a vibration match for those lower vibrations when you are not letting go of them too. You worked through all of your past pain, yet you will continue to loop the same painful feelings that make up your Heart Wall until you can recognize that it’s time to heal.
Are you ready to change this?
When your Heart Wall is healed, not only do you find a sense of belonging and connection with loved ones, but you begin to feel new passion for your life and your career too! You connect with your inner purpose and you discover clarity around which action steps lead to the life of fulfillment you've been desiring.
Life opens up to support you when you let down your Heart Wall and release the stuck emotions weighing you down.
Completely healing your Heart Wall is just one of the many transformations that will change your life for the better when you choose to receive energy healing.
Stay tuned for The 3 Ways Your Heart Wall Affects Your Business.